Should I just ignore her?

A family member loves to post quotes and such from the Quran and Hadith but yet does the most disgraceful things. She has never been married but loves to have sex with whoever, always has boyfriends, doesnt wear scarf, doesnt pray, doesnt go to mosque, listens to haram rap music etc. I try real hard not to judge her but her hypocrisy is ovewhelming me. Her and I say the same ayat and such but yet im constantly trying to do the right thing. I married to avoid some of those issue, always read quran, pray, etc. Its not fair for us both to be in Heaven if we make it because she may be forgiven. Why should i spend my whole life doing the right thing, her doing the wrong thing, and both be in heaven?